
Taken Spring 2011
He told me that both adults and children would make fun of his belly. I asked him how that made him feel and he said it hurt his feelings. I can definitely relate to this experience knowing what it was like for people to criticize or joke about your size.
I told him living with us would be very different than living with our parents. He said it was okay.
My parents noticed that he had changed when we visited during winter break. My dad told me my brother was a lot more considerate, mature and independent now.
When I was growing up, I dealt with my weight problem by crash dieting and binging secretly in my room.
I was very adamant that my brother would grow up healthy without an eating disorder or emotional issues that I still deal with today. He eats all the food I cook and likes to ask questions about what I've made. I take him grocery shopping with me and answer any questions he may have. I bake with him and let him pick out the recipes.
Last Halloween, he dressed up as Russell from Up and I dressed up as a Greek Goddess. We came home with a hoard of candy. He was good about eating it slowly since I told him he could have no more than three pieces a day. I gave half of the candy away to his friends in Taiwan when we went back for winter break.
I also try to encourage physical activity as a family. We go for long walks a lot especially on the weekends. Since we have the Disney World annual pass, I treat it like a long day of actively moving. I don't hear any complaints from my brother. I remember loathing PE and any form of physical activity when I was younger because I thought it was punishment for being fat. I found out he loves badminton so we bought a set and play on our driveway. He enjoys it so much he beat his PE teacher at school when they played badminton.
I invite him to go jogging with me around the neighborhood and I'm not going to lie, he hates it. We are looking into buying a bike for him though so he can follow us when we go jogging.
We recently bought the Just Dance 3 for Kinect and play whenever we can in our living room. It definitely gets the body moving yet it's fun and enjoyable for him.
He's still a growing boy so I don't believe in restricting his food intake. He seems to know when he's hungry and when to stop. I find he's gotten a lot more athletic since he first arrived. I think it would be incredibly beneficial to him in the long run if we lead a whole foods lifestyle and incorporate fun physical activity in his life.
Taken two weekends ago at Disney World
10 comments:
There is a huge difference between the spring photo of your brother and the one from two weeks ago. I can tell you love him and want only the best for him. You are teaching him excellent habits he will always have and use.
Good for you!!!
Teaching him GREAT habits!!
he looks great! and he has such a great influence.
I am glad that he has such a positive role model in his life. It is amazing that you seem to be so in tune with him.
And what a cute kid!
It was interesting to read the facts about childhood obesity too. I find it fascinating that parents will blame advertising for their unhealthy children. Young kids can't buy their own junkfood, and it is the parents duty to not let them watch so much darn television in the first place.
Whenever I see obese children it makes me so sad. A good friend of mine (who is very overweight) has two kids (three and five?) and both are quite overweight. It's tough to see things like that.
It's sounds like your brother is in a very good environment with you now!
He looks great and can I just say he looks so ADORABLE as Russel from Up!? Seriously! Your brother is such a cutie! :)
I agree huge difference- and I'm glad you aren't restricting portions while feeding him great food :)
Take me next! ;)
You must be the best big sister out there! I'm an only child so it's hard for me to imagine taking responsibiliy for a young sibling like that! He looks very happy in all your photos and from what you've told us you are really teaching him so great habits for life. Great job at being a big sister!
Good blog post! I too see a huge difference in the photos of your brother. I know I worry about Marie (she's 10) and it does seem there is so much food stuff in advertising. I think just being more active is a big key.
I am lucky - I did not feed my boys well when they were growing up. Very long story. But lets just say the they don't eat many if any vegetables. BUT, they also have eating issues or food issues and, knock on wood, no weight issues. Despite me, not thanks to me.
Great post and I love the way you are teaching him great habits. I trying to start good eating habits now with my daughter.
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